By Cheryl Mattox Berry
Families across the USA are hitting the road this month for family reunions and vacations. Eyeball roll and long sigh. The eyeball roll: teens. The sigh: parents of teens. Spending long hours in a car or SUV will try anyone’s patience, but it doesn’t have to be that way if you plan things to do during long stretches on the road. Here are a few suggestions:
- A family meeting. Since everyone will be present, it’s a good time to discuss the allocation of chores, extracurricula activities and privileges, and renegotiate your allowance. Prepare an agenda in advance. Ask each family member if they would like to include an item for discussion.
- Family history. If you are attending a family reunion, ask your parents to share stories about senior members of the family. You may not get to see them often, but this way you’ll feel a little closer to them.
- Ask each family member to bring his/her favorite music so all can enjoy. You’ll be surprised how many rappers have sampled oldies in their hits.
- Borrow books on tape and movies from the library. Select some classic movies featuring stars from days gone by. Ask your parents for suggestions.
- Games. Play your favorites or make them up. For example, name state capitals, location of landmarks, presidents, quotes or scenes from movies and sports trivia.
- Play tour guide. Research interesting sights along your route and give a brief history at each stop.
- Learn a language. You can borrow CDs from the library. Look for opportunities to practice the language at rest stops and restaurants.
- Crafts and hobbies. You’re always too busy, but now you have plenty of time to make jewelry, embroider your jeans, etc., on the road.
- Catalogue digital photos. Gather everyone’s photos, group according to event and create a slideshow.
- Class assignment. If you know a short story is required for English class, write a draft while you’re on the road. You’ll have plenty of time to let your imagination run wild.
Keep texting, phone calls and using your MP3 player to a minimum. The idea is for you to spend time with the family. If you’re off in a corner wearing your earbuds while everyone else is enjoying each other’s company, you will be considered rude and standoffish. And, yes, the relatives will talk about you.
The same goes for the car. Before you disconnect, ask your parents if it’s okay to listen to your music. Keep in mind that they don’t want to hear long conversations with your friends, so make those calls when they’re not within earshot.