By Cheryl Mattox Berry
When I was in sixth grade, my class staged a Christmas pageant. It was written and directed by my teacher, the late Mrs. Bernice Harris, a much sought-after speaker and one of my mentors. I delivered the closing monologue, and the words I recited that day have stuck with me throughout my life.
In essence, I told the auditorium packed with students, parents and teachers that every year we pay special attention to the needy at Christmas. We buy toys, food and clothes for them. When the holidays are over, we go back to our busy lives and forget all about the less fortunate. I reminded everyone that the needs we see at Christmas time are present every day, and we should continue helping the poor throughout the year.
The lights dimmed, and I stepped behind the curtain. End of program. Applause, applause, applause.
I wonder if anyone else in the audience was moved by those words. Today, I pass them along to you. Keep them in mind as your church, synagogue and club fan out over the city in search of families who need assistance this holiday season. Despite what economists say, the recession isn’t over in a lot of homes. Many people are still unemployed or underemployed. Food baskets and gift cards will be welcomed any day of the New Year.
Your club could adopt a family and do something special each month. For example, if a child has a birthday coming up club members could bake cupcakes, blow up balloons and buy a small gift or big one if you have the money. You could also give the gifts of time and talent throughout the year. Does the family’s house need painting, cleaning or organizing? Does a child need tutoring in math or reading?
Also, find out if anyone in your family is struggling. Pride and embarrassment may prevent some relatives from talking about their financial problems. Come up with ways to help, and ask other family members to pitch in until the adults are back on their feet. Perhaps you could babysit while mom or dad runs an errand or looks for a job.
It feels good to help others. Whatever issues you’re having at the time are put on the back burner when you turn your attention to someone else. You unwittingly become a role model by engaging in selfless acts. Those you’ve helped in their time of need will never forget your kindness.