By Cheryl Mattox Berry
As you prepare to celebrate Thanksgiving with family and friends, take a few minutes to thank those who have supported you in big and small ways this year.
Was there a teacher who saw that you were struggling and offered words of encouragement or extra time to complete an assignment? A family member who slipped you a wad of cash to buy that thing you wanted so desperately but your parents couldn’t afford it? A BFF who cried with you during a crisis? A neighbor who gave you a ride to school when you missed the school bus – again? A sibling who picked up the slack when you were too busy or lazy to do chores? A parent who worked extra hours so that you could celebrate homecoming like a rock star?
When people show kindness, they don’t expect rewards, but a “thank you” would make their day. They really didn’t have to go out of their way to help, but they did. Did you express your gratitude or rush off, caught up in your own world? Regardless, tell them over the next few days how much you appreciated them being there for you. Ask if there’s anything you can do to repay their kindness.
Outside your immediate circle, there are others who should be recognized for making you feel safe and secure. Think of ways to reach out to the following:
- The U.S. military. Young men and women – just a few years older than you – are serving in all branches of the military. Many troops have returned from the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq with brain injuries and missing limbs.
- Veterans. They served their country and should be treated with dignity throughout their lives.
- Police officers. They keep you safe at school and as you go about your business every day.
- Firefighters. Brave men and women who risk their lives with every call. Emergency medical technicians save lives on the spot.
- Volunteers. Where would schools, churches, synagogues, hospitals and libraries be without them?
- Medical personnel. Doctors, nurses and hospital staff who care for you during emergencies and hospital stays.
In addition to saying thanks, the best way to show your appreciation is to pay it forward. Not just at Thanksgiving and the holidays but throughout the year.
