By Cheryl Mattox Berry
Aretha Franklin, Train, Notorious B.I.G and The Staple Singers recorded hit songs about respect, but I think a lot of people have forgotten what the word means. Here goes:
Respect (noun) – a feeling of deep admiration for someone or something elicited by their abilities, qualities or achievements. – Oxford Dictionaries
Certain people, particularly those in positions of authority, deserve respect. The list includes:
- Parents. The Bible says “1) Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2) “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), 3) “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” – Ephesians 6:1-3
- The elderly. Age and wisdom put them high on the list. Listen to them because they can teach you a thing or two.
- Teachers. They’re really the second set of parents because they spend five days a week sharing wisdom, correcting, listening to problems and doling out advice.
- Police officers. Their job is to protect and serve. When crime strikes, they’re the first responders. We might not like the traffic tickets they write but want them ASAP in times of trouble.
- Clergymen and women. They’re our spiritual leaders. They don’t judge; they help you get in touch with a higher power.
- POTUS. President Barack Obama has been re-elected by voters. He won the popular vote and the Electoral College vote. He’s the commander-in-chief and shouldn’t be called derogatory names, hanged in effigy or the butt of crude and racist jokes.
- You. Respect yourself and demand that others do the same. Don’t let anyone treat you badly or call you names. You’re not a female dog or a garden tool. Set high standards, and don’t lower them for anyone or anything.
In addition to people, here are some other things that command respect.
- Opinions. Each of us is different, therefore, we won’t always agree. There’s no reason to come to blows about differing opinions. Agree to disagree, and keep it moving.
- Possessions of others. If someone entrusts you with a personal item, treat it with care. Return it in the same condition it was given to you.
- Belongings of others. No matter how badly you want something, don’t take what doesn’t belong to you. Stealing is a crime. It’s not worth the humiliation. Work for the clothes, jewelry, cell phone and other electronic gadgets on your wish list.